melinda’s lovely words of wisdom for the day on: beauty

quietblackbird:

so this is something that really angers me. who the hell said that being skinny was beautiful? sure. it can be beautiful, so what? over weight people can be beautiful too. why judge people on something that is so superficial. looks can change easily, but it’s what’s on the inside that matters. i know that is really cheesey but it’s true. i think inorder for someone to be truely beautiful they have to be unique on the inside. if a girl has a pretty face but are a total stuck bitch, they are not beautiful. they are a waste. but if a girl with acne, glasses, braces, or whatever the fuck she has and is extremely nice and always willing to help out then she is beautiful. she is the best and truest sort of beauty.

the truth of the matter is. when you die it won’t matter what you weighed, what you looked like, or what you wore. all that will matter is what you did while you were alive, the lives you changed, the difference you made, and the person you became. that is what you will be remembered by.

so, at the end of the day remember it’s who you are and how you act that really matters.

that’s just another two cents of mine. you can love it or leave it, but its what i think.